to have or not to have?
i thot i really wanna have kind of celebration since this year is different and one only experiences their 21st once in a lifetime. but now i guess maybe i'll need to put off that idea? my parents are quite okay with me having a 21st bdae party but well they have their budget too since my sister is getting married in sept and they are expecting to spend quite a lot on that. so yeap. i was told that if i can find some place and catering blar blar within their budget they will agree to have it.
results? hmm the only one that i have been to before and thot it is not bad to hold it there is also not possible now cos of full booking of that place. sigh. i shud have check out the bookings way back in early august. have thot of holding a 21st bdae but i din have the time to check out the venue, cost and info due to orientation, rag and schoolwork, and well of many miscellaneous stuff too. and now, just a 3weeks away from the actual day, den i am looking for possible venues. isnt it a bit too late u may ask. and yes i know! kinda too late. SIGH.
checked out other beautiful places, and yes the cost is beautiful too. someone suggested to me of hlding at those function rooms that are common if u stay in condos but well i thot it will be weird to have your bdae party and someone else's condo rite? well others mite not think so but at least i do! any ohter suggestions?? i think this goes to show how bad my planning is.. or rather it's my time management. sigh sigh sigh.
maybe yea just like wat my mum says.. "go out with family and eat something good lor!" well, that's what that matters most rite? to have a proper family dinner which we haven been doin it for quite some time. :( but yea everyone wans something special for their 21st, and i am not excluded i guess. maybe cos a lot of my frens also done that, hence made me wanna do it as well. oh wells.
all i wanted to is to have something different and of cos a memorable one too. of cos throwing a bdae party is not the only thing that gurantees that. but at least it acts as an excuse of having all my close frens and my loved ones to gather together and celebrate this special day for me. that would be such a luxury. :)