There is always two sides to a story and i guess your version is just too harsh..
why make the whole situation so ugly as if you will benefit from it? it just disgust me, totally.
i just feel more upset when pple pass untrue judgement about me when they are not even involved or understand the whole situation. dun assume or pretend you know it. cos you just simply dun. seriously, if that's how others think, so be it.. i wun even care or bother to make much explanation to pple who are just plain ignorant. if you are truly concerned, pls ask and be sure of the whole matter before you pass any unfair judgement about the whole issue.
it's complicated. the reality is just ugly. and you just have to accept it.. just like how i did.
just for clarifications for the ignorant ones: the you in this context does not necessarily refer to any particular person. thanks.